Since I rejoined Tinder, I have re-connected with one of the guys who I had chatted with this past Spring. This guy in particular had a pattern: arrange to meet up, silence close to the date of the arranged meet up, no meet up took place, profuse apologies and excuses, new arrangement... and so on. [...]

Priority vs. Option

As was probably evident by my previous post, I am still searching for the Ben Wyatt to my Leslie Knope. I had something with someone, but I have realized that I am, and always have been, just an option to them. That is not saying being an option is necessarily always negative or bad, but [...]